I have a new theory today: when you feel that you miss something, sometime or somebody, you actually just have a hole in your heart. A hole where love used to be.

It's like there is a hole which is draining all the love that is in your heart. We devote all our own capacity for love into trying to find back that something, sometime or somebody that used to fill that hole.

But its hopeless; holes never fill themselves back. All we can do is to plug it with something else and prevent it from continuing to drain us emotionally.

I need to stop missing and start loving again.